October 15, 2020

An Annus Horribilis by Nina Faye Morey

 


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Righteousness and justice are the foundation of your throne;

Love and faithfulness go before you.

~ Psalm 89:14, NIV

 

In a speech marking the 40th anniversary of her accession to the throne, Queen Elizabeth II referred to 1992 as an “annus horribilis,” a Latin phrase meaning a horrible year. She said, “1992 is not a year on which I will look back with undiluted pleasure.”¹

 

The year 2020 has been my “annus horribilis” — a dreadful year full of grief and sorrow. My loving husband of nearly 48 years passed away from cancer on April 30 at the relatively young age of 75. Only a few months earlier, our family physician had remarked that he was quite healthy for a man of his age. Regrettably, cancer is not a disease that could be readily picked up by a routine physical examination. It’s a cunning and insidious disease that seldom reveals symptoms until it’s too late to administer life-saving treatments.

 

On top of dealing with the grief and heartache of my husband’s passing, I’ve had to cope with the added stress caused by the Covid-19 Coronavirus. This pandemic has left many of us struggling to cope with feelings of fear, sadness, loneliness, anxiety, and depression. These feelings can easily overwhelm us and exacerbate any pre-existing mental health conditions. For me and countless others, this year has indeed been an “annus horribilis.”

 

Unfortunately for us, our society tends to stigmatize and discriminate against those who are prone to mental illness. While someone with a high fever and cough will receive immediate medical attention, a person suffering from a broken spirit will often be met with an attitude of indifference, or even disrespect. Everyone in our society deserves to have equal rights, which includes the same right and ease of access to both physical and mental health services. Negative attitudes and stereotypes not only make it harder for those with mental health issues to deal with life’s stresses, they are also detrimental to their inclination to seek help and their ability to recover.



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Unfortunately, Covid-19 has only intensified the impact that these systemic inequalities have on those who suffer from mental illness by increasing their social isolation, unemployment, poverty, and homelessness. The Canadian Mental Health Association released a nationwide survey in June that revealed that the pandemic has dealt a devastating psychological blow to many Canadians, especially “those with existing mental illness or mental health issues.”²

 

According to Statistics Canada:

 

1) “Over 2 million Canadians aged 15 years and over have a mental health-related disability.”

 

2) “Four of the most frequently reported mental health-related conditions are: anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, and severe stress disorders.”

 

3) “Nearly half of employed Canadians with a mental health-related disability feel that one or more of their conditions makes it difficult to change or advance in their job. Of these, 1 in 4 believe it is due to discrimination or stigma.”³



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Woe to you Pharisees, because you give God a tenth of your

mint, rue and all other kinds of garden herbs, but you neglect

justice and the love of God. You should have practiced the

latter without leaving the former undone.

~ Luke 11:42


Jesus fed the poor, defended widows and children, embraced lepers, prostitutes, tax collectors and other outcasts from society. He did not stigmatize or discriminate against anyone. He treated everyone equally, whether they suffered from spiritual, physical, or mental disorders. He spoke out against those who cloaked themselves with the mantle of faith and religion, but did not practice justice and mercy.

 

As followers of Jesus, we must recognize that we are all made in the image of God. Therefore, we must work towards making our society more just and humane for everyone. It is incumbent upon us to challenge the inequities and injustices that those with mental illnesses and disabilities experience daily and to take an active role in creating positive change. Like Jesus, we need to place our focus on the wellbeing of the whole person, tending to all of their needs: mental, physical, and spiritual.


He has shown you, O mortal, what is good.

And what does the Lord require of you?

To act justly and to love mercy

And to walk humbly with your God.

~ Micah 6:8


Take a few minutes now to reflect on your attitude toward those who suffer from mental health conditions. How might you make amends for any transgressions you’ve committed? What unique role do you see yourself playing in righting the root causes of this social injustice and promoting a more just and equitable society for everyone?




¹ “A speech by The Queen on the 40th Anniversary of her succession (Annus horribilis speech),” The Royal Household, November 24, 1992, https://www.royal.uk/annus-horribilis-speech.

² “Covid-19 effects on the mental health of vulnerable populations,” Canadian Mental Health Association, June 24, 2020, https://cmha.ca/documents/covid-mental-health-effects-on-vulnerable-populations.

³ “Mental health-related disabilities in Canada, 2017,” Statistics Canada, January 30, 2019, https://www150.statcan.gc.ca/n1/pub/11-627-m/11-627-m2019005-eng.htm

9 comments:

  1. It is wonderful to have your voice back on the blog, Nina. My condolences on the loss of your husband. Mental health issues are becoming less stigmatized but it is still a battle for those who suffer... Blessings.

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  2. It certainly has been a horrible year. The best thing we can do to help one another is listen. It's too easy to butt in with fix-it suggestions. It's like that saying that God gave us one mouth but two ears.

    As for me, I'm angry at the continuing lock down. We've learned that this CCP virus wasn't as lethal as people assumed. But our leaders are still acting like millions will die unless they obey. Like Moses, I say let my people go!

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  3. Nina,
    I'm sorry this year has been extra difficult for you. May you continue to find peace and comfort in Jesus Christ and his followers.
    Our family has members who struggle with mental illness, so I know some of the struggles you face. Each day can be a challenge. I hope you have a support network, as we have found that extremely helpful.
    It must make our Heavenly Father sad to see us judging rather than loving and helping those in need.

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  4. I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your husband. May the Lord continue to comfort you.

    Our family is well aware of mental health issues. My husband struggled for years with bipolar mood disorder. It was difficult to get a correct diagnosis, but the medication he is now on since 2009 is great.

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  5. I think Bruce hits it right on. I struggle with how to deal with those around me who suffer with mental health problems. I’m learning to be a better listener.

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  6. Hi Nina. Thank you for sharing this sad part in your life with us. I feel for you in this “annus horribilis,” you are enduring. Blessings to you as you journey on without your husband. May his memory be eternal in the mind of God. A number of years ago I suffered burnout as a result of losing balance in life. This included a depression for two years. Believe it or not I found no solace in my church community. I was a pastor and sensed I had failed. Thank you for your words and compassion, Nina. I pray God's comfort for you.

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  7. I’m so very sorry for your loss, Nina. What a horrible year indeed. 😢 I am glad to see that you have a voice again. It’s been a tough year for anyone with anxiety issues. I pray that the Lord will cover you with peace.

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  8. What a heartache to go through the sudden passing of your husband, Nina. Such losses can leave us reeling for a time. Thanks for sharing your "annus horriblis" with us, and a glimmer of the mental anguish you experienced. Thanks for challenging us to make it part of our mission to care for the whole person!

    My prayer for you comes from Psalm 40:1 "He lifted me out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand. He put a new song in my mouth, a hymn of praise to our God."

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  9. Thanks, Nina, for sharing your most difficult year. My heart goes out to you and prayers will be said on your behalf. May you know His presence as He holds you in the palm of his hand and may you be overcome with His peace. Thanks for encouraging us to keep our eyes open for those whose needs may not be obvious on the outside and to listen - really listen - to others with compassion and an open heart.

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