Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with
the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always
perseveres.—I Corinthians 13: 6 & 7.
D is for Discipline
Discipline means “training that corrects, molds, or perfects the mental faculties or moral character.” https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/discipline
Touchy Feely and Called
Years ago, a friend and
colleague informed me I was “touchy feely.” He said this because visiting
people in the hospital like I did was not his calling. He spent more time in
administrative responsibilities than anything else. He later noted he could not
do my ministry. Well, that’s the point of our spiritual gifts. We are gifted as
God sees fit. With our spiritual gift comes discipline as our gift develops.
I love people, and I love
writing. I care for people, and I care about each word I write. I am devoted to
both. I imagine there are people who might consider my writing “touchy feely,”
as well, and this is fine with me. Please allow me to explain how my spiritual
gift and my discipline developed.
A Jump Start to Discipline
In my younger years of Bible
college and ministry, I soon realized I would never be a Biblical scholar. For
a time, it seemed I was a failure. While several of my Bible college peers were
learning Hebrew and Greek, I was falling behind.
April 18, 1977, gave a jump
start to my education, ministry, and area of discipline. Dr. Vernon C. Grounds,
of Denver Seminary, presented a three-day series entitled, “Thanatology: A New
Name for Man’s Old Nemesis.” This presentation set the foundation for my
discipline into pastoral care, with my focus on grief, death, and dying. Dr.
Grounds was not only a pastor and scholar, but he was also approachable and
exhibited a deep love for God’s people.
Discipline, Devotion and Ministry
I love people; I love to write,
and I hope people find me approachable. I care for people, and I care about
each word I write. Over the past forty-five years, I devoted my calling to
pastoral care related work to ministry in church and community involvement.
This includes my writing. This has all taken determination and discipline to
make a difference in the lives of people.
My disciplined journey in
pastoral care took years to develop. I loved every year, even the difficult
ones. One lesson I suggest to younger people as they seek to develop their
spiritual gift is don’t give up. Perseverance is part of the journey of
discipline. The difficulties faced in ministry, or our writing, may test us. Difficulties,
however, are not a reason to doubt or quit our calling.
Over the past two years,
health challenges have challenged my calling. I see no reason to quit but
adjust my approach. My so-called “retirement years” give time and space to
evaluate my calling, but not neglect it. This is all part of discipline.
Disciplined to Keep Writing
These days my writing is
focused on writing poetry. This is a pleasant change for me but still invites
discipline. This change from short stories, for instance, has taught me disciplined
writing can be a form of contemplation. I know people who focus on devotional
messages as contemplative writers. For me, poetry is contemplative and helps me
focus on thoughts and emotions I hope to express in the poems.
Summation
Membership as an InScribe
writer is a tremendous honour and blessing. We are at different levels in our
writing call, yet all of us are disciplined in our gifts as writers.
We can never underestimate the
importance of discipline in our gift and call to write, whatever our genre. Here
are a few concluding points to help us appreciate what discipline entails:
1. Discipline helps one develop self-control.
2. Discipline takes time.
3. Discipline
includes enthusiasm.
4. Discipline
teaches us to be humble.
5. Discipline
develops focus.
6. Discipline
helps us make wise choices.
7. Discipline
enables us to reach our goals.
8. Discipline
helps us persevere in our calling.
Dear
InScribe family, love the Lord, love His call on your life, and love the
discipline it takes to be faithful.
Alan lives in Deroche, B.C. with his wife, Terry, and their poodle, Charlie. He contributed stories to Good Grief People by Angel Hope Publishing, 2017; Story by Story: The Power of a Writer, Unstoppable Writers Publishing, 2018; Easter Stories & More by InScribe Christian Writers’ Fellowship, 2021. He is currently working on a book expressing the grief of grieving grandparents entitled “Hidden Poetic Voices: A Reflective Work of Grief, Faith, and Poetry.” Alan periodically writes articles for FellowScript Magazine. He has written posts for our InScribe blog since 2015. He is the Writing Group Coordinator for InScribe. Blog: https://scarredjoy.ca.
Thank you, dear Alan, for this wonderful testimony of discipline.
ReplyDeleteI needed these words of yours: "Difficulties, however, are not a reason to doubt or quit our calling."
Amen & blessings.
Hello Wendy! Thank you so much for the encouragement. I love how our posts can speak into the lives of each other.
DeleteAlan, I love how your caring heart is evident in all of your writing. Thanks for sharing how embracing our God given gifts and calling take time and discipline. Your passions - “I love people and love writing” are a blessing to us all.
ReplyDeleteDear Sharon. As a shy boy, my mum taught me how to care for people. She has always been my role model. She was a quiet, unassuming woman, but by observing how she lived she taught me a lot about life and how to interact with people.
Delete"Disciplined journey". What a great theme! You challenged me with your words, "don't give up. Perseverance is part of the journey of discipline. The difficulties faced in ministry, or our writing, may test us. Difficulties, however, are not a reason to doubt or quit our calling." The Lord has reminded me that difficulties lead exactly to the directions I need to go. They're like headwinds--keep going!
ReplyDelete"Keep going!" is right, Sandi. I am glad you have never quit in your writing.
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