February 28, 2023

Be Brave! -- by Mary Folkerts


I may be a farm girl, but I despise mice! Maybe it's their quick and sneaky ways, but the little creatures hold a power over me that is not at all proportional to their size!

It was a warm fall day on the farm, and a niece from the city had come to help us collect tarp coverings from bee shelters in the field. The pollinators had done their summer's work, and the harvest was in progress.

Things were going well until the realization struck that mice had taken up residence in the tarps we were pulling in. Thus, you could find me yelling from a distance for niece Trudi to "be brave!" as I left her to do the initial investigation for the vermin on her own.

We have chuckled many times over my cowardly call for bravery on her part! But isn't that the truth of it in so many aspects of life? We want others to be brave enough to do things we feel incapable of doing. We love books where authors are honest; we cry tears at their words because we empathize with their pain. It makes me realize that anyone who writes to encourage their readers can't just call from their corner of safety for others to pen what they are too afraid to put into words. Writing takes bravery, as our best words are often written from vulnerability and pain.

Writing takes bravery; as our best words are
often written from vulnerability and pain.

Paul reminds us of this when we read, “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.” 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 NIV.

I don’t know where the notion came from that Christians won’t have trouble in their lives, as this verse clearly states that we will. But it also says that we will receive comfort from the God of all comfort when we experience difficult times. There are many dips and curves, valleys and deserts as we navigate life. Still, because we have felt the gentle hand of the Saviour comforting and giving us courage and strength, we can also share God’s comfort with others going through similar valleys.

Sharing personal pain exposes our weaknesses but highlights the power of what God can accomplish despite ourselves. It takes bravery to be honest, but in our authentic words, others can find hope and comfort as we share the comfort we received from our heavenly Father.

God wants to use your story as a testament to His love and restorative power. With His help, you can find the strength to be brave!


Mary Folkerts is mom to four kids and wife to a farmer, living on the southern prairies of Alberta, where the skies are large and the sunsets stunning. She is a Proverbs 31 ministries COMPEL Writers Training member and is involved in church ministries and music. Mary’s personal blog aims to encourage and inspire women and advocate for those with Down Syndrome, as their youngest child introduced them to this extraordinary new world. For more inspiration, check out Joy in the small things https://maryfolkerts.com/  or follow on Instagram www.instagram.com/maryfolkerts  


10 comments:

  1. Amen, dear Mary, to: "Writing takes bravery, as our best words are often written from vulnerability and pain."
    Welcome to InScribe Writers Online, and thank you for this encouraging post.
    Blessings.

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    1. Thanks Wendy for the lovely welcome! 😊

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  2. Thanks, Mary, for this wonderful post. I agree that writers who write with honesty vulnerability encourage and touch the hearts of more readers, as you did with your post today.

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    1. Thanks for this encouragement Sharon!

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  3. Thanks Mary, and welcome to our blog!! You have so many words of wisdom. I agree that "anyone who writes to encourage their readers can't just call from their corner of safety for others to pen what they are too afraid to put into words." We have to live what we write. And I love this: "Sharing personal pain exposes our weaknesses but highlights the power of what God can accomplish despite ourselves"--and our story told with honesty and vulnerability relates to readers who can discover the Lord's power in their own lives.

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    1. Thanks for the welcome Sandi! Yes I believe God gives us all unique stories to share that someone will resonate with! Thanks for the encouragement!😊

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  4. Yes! Bravery is indeed a very important part of the writing life! it is scary to put ourselves out there. And welcome to the blog!

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    1. Thanks for the welcome! It’s so nice to be here! Happy I found this place!😊

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  5. Mary, I had a wee giggle over your mouse story and your voice of bravado as you encouraged your niece to 'be brave' while you stood afar off.

    I love this line of yours: "...anyone who writes to encourage their readers can't just call from their corner of safety for others to pen what they are too afraid to put into words."

    A lovely post - thank you!

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  6. Ha Brenda! Yes I was very brave up against those mice! (Not!)😁 yes it’s scary to expose our weakness… what will they think?? But really we’re all just weak broken people who need rescue right?😏

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