As a pastor I can
say a solid “amen” to that.
I used to work hard
at time management and schedules to avoid interruptions. Now I work hard at
life management to include interruptions.
Much of effective
pastoral care is usually found in the interruptions.
The man widowed
after 45 years of marriage whose call interrupts message prep about Biblical
families because he needs help making sense of his newly single life.
The distraught
mother whose call interrupts Board agenda prep because her adult son was just
found dead in his apt.
The novice small
group leader whose text interrupts budget prep needing to know why the God he
is teaching about is so heartless in the Old Testament.
The seeker who
shows up at the office interrupting an evangelism training seminar because they
passed by the church and saw the sign that says, “Come as you are.” And so
they’ve come. Now. To talk. About God.
In reading the
Gospels two things stand out to me about how Jesus dealt with work and
interruptions. Jesus was busy. Why else would John record in his gospel that if
everything Jesus did was written down, the world would not have enough room to
contain all the books about his work. (John 21:25) That’s busy.
But Jesus was never
hurried.
Interruptions did
not stop his work – they became his work. He was never too hurried to pause.
A woman with an
“issue of blood” interrupted him on his way to heal a little girl. He paused.
“Who touched me?” The woman was healed and so was the girl.
A blind man in
Jericho interrupted Jesus on his journey to Jerusalem by calling out for mercy.
His friends tried to quiet him. Jesus paused and healed him.
The longer I have
worked at writing, the more I see that the writing life and life in general is
not about balance but about priority. Relationships trump rules. People trump
schedules. Family trumps just about everything.
Setting your pen
down or turning aside from a keyboard to pay attention to an interruption could
be the best thing you can do.
As I was writing
this post about interruptions I was interrupted by a call from my eldest son
and grandson. They’re five hours away in Saskatoon but as close as a Facetime
call. An ironic interruption? Not really. Just life. At its best. Hello?
Bob is
a recovering perfectionist, who collects Coca-Cola memorabilia and drinks Iced
Tea. His office walls are adorned with his sons’ framed football jerseys, and
his library shelves, with soul food. He writes to inspire people to be real,
grow an authentic faith in Jesus, enjoy healthy relationships and discover
their life purpose.
Follow his writing at Pointes Of View.
Yes. Yes. And yes, yes, and yes.
ReplyDeleteThank you Bob.
Pretty much what Joy said!! I love the thought that Jesus was busy but never hurried. Thanks for your words of wisdom, Bob.
ReplyDeleteI loved your examples of when Jesus looked after the interruption--the immediate need--and then carried on with whatever was next. He may have planned his day when he talked to his Heavenly Father in the morning, but then he knew what the priorities were and he made the shift. Good thoughts on priorities over balance, Pastor Bob, and I loved reading about your interruptions and priorities too.
ReplyDeleteMay God continue to bless you in your work!
Love the quote: Sometimes the interruption is the assignment. Great point!
ReplyDeleteall the above comments. yes! thank-you.
ReplyDelete"Life is what happens while you're making other plans"
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