December 13, 2018

The Christmas Card by Wendy L. Macdonald


The Christmas card somehow eluded our spring-cleaning purge. My daughter handed me a gold-edged card she found tucked in with the Christmas decorations. We had recycled, sold, and given away a lot of things—including a stack of Christmas cards stashed in an old cupboard we recently sold online.

“It’s from Auntie Debbie,” she said before I had a chance to open it.

Perhaps my daughter wanted to warn me—to give me a heads up—the handwritten words inside might bring me down. I read the note, noting the blessing wished over our family for 2018.
It was the last Christmas card my dear friend would ever send me; I didn't know it at the time I received it.

Deb, a friend I’d known since the sixties, was not going to celebrate the season with the rest of us here on earth. She would worship and rejoice with Jesus in Heaven. And while her husband, children, and grandchildren opened Christmas gifts together, she would gather together with loved ones who had entered the Pearly Gates ahead of her.

My sweet friend was one of those rare people who remembered every single birthday of her friends and her friends’ children. Not a year passed by before she passed away that she didn’t send a card for each one of our special days.

I tucked the last Christmas card into the edge of my antique dresser mirror as a morning reminder for December to remember what matters most about the season. Love. Love lasts long after gifts and cards have faded from our memory. Love lifts spirits and heals wounded hearts.

My friendship with Deb had been more deliciously satisfying than a plateful of freshly baked gingerbread cookies. She always greeted me with a smile as warm and as wide as the arms she flung around me. We always laughed a lot and hid little from each other. She praised my honesty and openness by rewarding me with her own from-the-heart confessions, hopes, and prayers.

I would miss her. I already do. But tears are less now as I focus on being thankful for her friendship here and for our forever friendship in Heaven. Emmanuel has gifted us with this hope. He is with me now and has promised to bring all believers together to be with Him in Paradise.

Although Debbie was generous about sending out cards and gifts for Christmas. She practised what it’s really about: Spending time with each other rather than just spending money on each other. Deb’s last Christmas card focused on the gift of time spent together. And it reminded us to:

 “O come, let us adore Him.”

We may think we don’t have a lot to give God. But what He treasures most from us is time spent loving and enjoying Him and time spent loving and enjoying our family, friends, and neighbours as ourselves. Like Mary, the mother of Jesus, may we ponder the Good News of the Christmas Child. May we ponder God’s love for us.

That’s the best Christmas card we could ever send to Jesus.


I'm nosey-to-know if you have a keepsake Christmas card you love to display during December.

Merry Christmas ~ Wendy Mac

12 comments:

  1. Wendy,
    What a lovely, thoughtful post and a special tribute to your dear friend, Debbie.

    Since you asked, I have several cards that I like to keep from year to year -- they have special meaning either for the gorgeous artistic work on the front or for the dear message shared inside. Some I display over and over, others I keep in a box to savour from time to time.

    Wishing you a blessed Christmas.
    Brenda

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    1. Thank you, dear Brenda. Yes, cards with "gorgeous artistic work on the front" are keepers. Handmade ones also deserve preservation.

      Christmas blessings ~ Wendy Mac

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  2. Beautiful remembrance of your friend, Deb. I have a few cards that I've kept from year to year and sometimes display them along with the new ones...

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    1. Thank you, dear Tracy. I think I'm going to make it a tradition to display special old ones along with the new ones each year too. Great idea.
      Christmas blessings ~ Wendy Mac

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  3. I love the paragraph that begins, "My friendship with Deb had been more deliciously satisfying than . . ." Your description of your friendship with Deb that follows strikes a chord with me for I can identify with the openness and honesty of your relationship. Well said. I believe I have every single card my husband gave me and a few special ones from friends and family as well. Thanks for your delightful post, Wendy.

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    1. Thank you, dear Sharon. I love your romantic spirit. I have a feeling your place is warmly and wonderfully decorated for Christmas.
      Christmas blessings & hugs ~ Wendy Mac

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  4. I love Christmas cards. We have a basket one the kitchen island that holds the cards. I love to be able to read each one over and over.

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    1. What a lovely idea to keep them in a basket, dear Melissa. Both the basket and the cards are beautiful.
      Christmas blessings ~ Wendy Mac

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  5. Wendy,
    Thanks for introducing us to your friend, Deb. May you continue to treasure the memories you have and may you continue to make memories with people who still surround you. Merry Christmas!

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    1. Thank you, dear Ruth. Amen to continuing to make memories. Since Deb's death, several of us have become more faithful in keeping in touch. Deb would be happy to hear that.

      Christmas blessings xo ~ Wendy Mac

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  6. Dear Wendy,
    I love these thoughts during Advent Season: "Emmanuel has gifted us with this hope. He is with me now and has promised to bring all believers together to be with Him in Paradise." Even as there are so many loved ones now that I long to be with, it such a comfort to know that He is with me here, just as He is with them there. And what joy to come across those surprise notes left behind from such a dear friend! Blessings to you this Christmas!

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    1. Thank you, dear Bettie. Yes, He is with us here too. It truly was a blessing to see her card as I had no idea it was last one when I first got it last year. xo
      Christmas hugs ~ Wendy Mac

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