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November 09, 2022

How Remaining Faithful Led to Joy by Joylene M. Bailey

 


"What will you do in the mundane days of faithfulness?"

- Martin Luther -

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My January post told the story of The Lone Tree near Swift Current, Saskatchewan. How it stood alone, remaining faithful to its purpose even when nobody was there to see it.

I'm still intrigued by the quote above.

Mundane = ordinary, banal, normal, humdrum.

Well, my year was anything but ordinary in the "normal" sense of the word, as we moved from our home in the city to the country home we'd built. The tasks involved in moving see-sawed from excitingly whirlwind to tediously mundane. Packing and culling and what-do-I-do-with-Grandma's-wedding-dress kinds of decisions.

Through it all, though, I believe I was faithful in trudging forward even when every aching bone in my body cried for me to give up.

Faithfulness can look different for different people. For some, just getting out of bed day after day could be counted as being faithful. It often means doing the hard thing or the boring thing over and over and over, even if it's just packing that next box.

I began the year intent on being faithful. Faithful to my calling as a wife, mother, grandmother, writer, homemaker. Faithful to keep putting one foot in front of the other to accomplish whatever it took to get us moved. But I found as the year went on, I spent a lot of time thinking about God's faithfulness. In part, His faithfulness in fulfilling the promise, the dream, of our new home, something we'd been dreaming for more than a dozen years.

Now that we're moved in and mostly settled, I look back at the year and see all the many, many times He was faithful. Faithful in giving us the best, even when we couldn't see it. 

We were ready to put the shovel in the ground in March 2020, but then you-know-what happened. All of our plans and dreams seemed to fall through. But God brought us to a new builder: a stranger to us, but fellow believer, he was someone who understood our vision and worked with us to see it completed. Yes, we had to go back to the drawing board - literally - and that took loads of time. But God had it all worked out.

I'm learning more and more that God's sense of time and my sense of time are worlds apart. Yes, I know that all the best things take time, but I still want it in MY time. That's what I expect. Sure, I can handle waiting for a few months if that was in my plan all along. Waiting any longer doesn't come naturally to me.

God's timing, however, doesn't seem to work that way. I don't think it's linear at all. Maybe not even counted in days and weeks, months and years. It's HIS timing. Which takes into account all of past, present, and future history. It is perfect timing and I'm very grateful for it.

In future, I need to trust that His time is the RIGHT time. No matter the week or the year, it will happen at just the right time in history. His time. And He is faithful to His time.

We're so glad that this home was built in His perfect timing. It's so much better than anything we had hoped and planned. He knew better. I should have known that all along.

So you see, this year as I worked at being faithful, I was brought to His faithfulness. Reflecting on His constant faithfulness brought me to gratefulness. And gratefulness led to joy.



"Even when circumstances cloud our view, God's sovereignty is strong enough to hold us. No matter how loud the noise of the chaos around us seems, He always hears our cry for help.

Look past the noisy crowd, friend. Trust His faithfulness. Stand on His promises. Lean in and let the nearness of His presence steady your heart."

(From one of the devotionals in She Reads Truth Bible)

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Joy writes from her new home in rural Alberta where she lives with The Cowboy, and Chara the joyful Swiss Mountain Puppy. Find more of her Joy-infused writing at Scraps of Joy

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All landscape photos from Pixabay






February 23, 2021

PIVOT by Joylene M. Bailey

 

If I had been an athlete, I think I would have played basketball. Sadly, I'm the farthest thing from an athlete but I do enjoy watching.

Two of my brothers played basketball, as did all three of my daughters. So it's fair to say, I've watched A LOT of basketball games.

There is one principle of basketball that I've always found intriguing, and is something that is difficult for a beginning player to learn: The pivot foot. 


In the simplest terms possible, the pivot foot is the foot that remains in contact with the floor while a player controls the ball while stopped.

The player may spin or otherwise change position so long as their pivot foot does not move from its initial position or lose contact with the floor.                            Basketball for Coaches

Basketball players need to be adaptive and creative, as they experience the nuances of the game. With every move from their opponents and even their own teammates, they spin and twist, looking for an opening, a way to their ultimate goal - to get the ball into the hoop. That's creative adaptability.

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A few weeks before Christmas 2020, I put aside the memoir I was working on to prepare for Christmas. We were looking forward to the joyful chaos that a house full of kids, and especially grandkids, would bring. 

We'd been hoping the restrictions would hold off but, alas, the restrictions came down in full force and we knew there would be no little visitors from provinces away. I was down and discouraged.

One day as I sat in the living room commiserating with myself, my eyes fell on the long legged snowman my hubby had given me days before.

Suddenly, my mind opened up to new possibilities. My grandchildren couldn't come to me, but I could go to them with daily stories, complete with staged photographs, about a long legged snowman who got into innocent mischief. 

Pivot.

That's how Jubal's Adventures was born. Soon he had a pet reindeer named Reggie, and a very nervous friend called Beverly Mouse. I've written about some of his adventures here

The days leading up to Christmas passed swiftly with Jubal getting into new shenanigans every day. What joy he brought, to my grandkids and to me!

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Just like pivoting in basketball allows the player with the ball to find an opening to take a shot, so pivoting in our expectations allows creatives to create in new ways.

Pivot.

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Joy, Jubal, Reggie, and Beverly Mouse live in Edmonton with The Cowboy and Babe-soon-to-be-married. Find more of her joy-infused view of the world at Scraps of Joy.