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August 09, 2020

5 Steps to Achieving Your Writing Dreams by Steph Beth Nickel


A little note before we dig in … I use the singular they. Since some writers and editors don’t care for it, I felt a heads-up was a good idea. No need to make readers unnecessarily twitchy.

Hitting the bestsellers list. Earning a fulltime living as a writer. Getting that blog post written.

What are your writing dreams?

Whatever your dreams, there are steps you can take on the journey to making those dreams come true.

Here are five suggestions to point you in the right direction:

Determine your personal definition of success.

Fluid. Changing. As unique as the individual writer.

One writer may not feel that sense of satisfaction until their work is picked up by a traditional publisher. Another may choose the indie route.

One blogger may post new content regularly. Another may post only when they have something pressing on their mind.

One author may be overjoyed to see their first (and only) book in print. Another may throw a celebration when they’re able to resign from their 9-5 job.

What is your definition of success?

Determine to celebrate the small (and not so small) wins.

Did you post in your Facebook group each day this week? Excellent!

Did you finally get that promised guest post fired off to your friend? Good for you!

Did you just sign a publishing contract or upload your first book? Party time!

How and when do you celebrate?

Determine to make a plan.

Kudos to each of you who make a detailed plan and, for the most part, stick with it! Scheduled posts? Check. Write x number of words per day? Double check. Set short- and long-term goals? Triple check.

Some writers can only stay on track if they have a dated game plan culminating in the finished product. Others prefer fewer constrictions but still need a rough idea of where they’re headed and how to get there.

What does your planning look like?

Determine to be flexible.

Make a plan. Be flexible. Make up your mind.

As we all know, Robert Burns was correct when he said, “The best-laid plans of mice and men often go awry.” If COVID has taught us nothing else …

Still, there are many things beyond the writer’s control, but they press on and take responsibility for what they can control.

Do you “go with the flow” or does a change to your plan give you hives?

Determine to persevere.

During the last five months or so, some have buckled down and achieved long-unrealized dreams. For others, victory has entailed getting out of bed in the morning. Don’t beat yourself up if you’re among the latter group.

Lao Tzu said, “The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.” I have also heard it said that a better translation would be, “The journey of a thousand miles begins with the ground beneath your feet.”

So, whether you’re making steady progress or simply standing up is progress, determine today to persevere. Take one more step on the journey to achieving your writing goals.

How will you persevere today?

Share in the comments what steps you’re taking to achieve your writing dreams.

 

November 03, 2014

GOD MADE KNOWN by Steph Beth Nickel




(image thanks to pixabay.com)

When I was a child
God made Himself known
As my Redeemer, Saviour, and Friend.

When I was a teen
God made Himself known
As the One who required my complete devotion.

When I was graduating high school
God made Himself known
As my Guide.

When it seemed like I would lose my faith in Bible College
God made Himself known
As the One who does not let go.

When I rejected the idea of finding a husband
God made Himself known
As the One with an infinitely better plan.

When I rode the emotional rollercoaster of the first few years of marriage
God made Himself known
As the Provider of an incredibly patient and loving husband.

When I became a mom
God made Himself known
As the giver of our Beloved Gift of God.

When both my hubby and I knew it was time to move
God made Himself known
As the One who had gone before us.

When we settled in a community I hadn’t even known existed
God made Himself known
As the One who knows all my needs.

When I became a mom for a second time
God made Himself known
As the One who knows which treasures to bestow on each parent.

When I became a mom for a third time—a year and a half later
God made Himself known
As the Fulfiller of Dreams (I’d always wanted a little girl).

When I chose to homeschool
God made Himself known
As the Greatest Educator.

When anger almost destroyed me and our family
God made Himself known
As the Restorer and the Deliverer.

When the teen years came
God made Himself known
As beyond gracious.

When our three began to leave the nest
God made Himself known
As the One with plans and purposes far beyond my understanding.

When I wrote this poem
God made Himself known
As the Great God who will truly never leave nor forsake us.